I hope this is not too long for your reading pleasure. I have written this to speak principally to husbands… and their wives so they could enjoy their marriages. I have come to know that so many marriages are hurting all because partners don’t understand some basic things about life. Principal among the challenges is...
1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime 2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married. 3. Silence can never be misquoted. 4. If you want what no one has had, do what no one has done. 5. When God wants to bless you, he puts a person...
I WANT TO GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP… BUT I AM AFRAID HE COULD KILL ME … SHE: Hello sir, Good evening. How was your day? I’m so sorry to be bothering you.. It’s just that I need someone to talk to..please sir ME: ok. Greetings dear. Bawo ni o? SHE: I’m not OK at...
And let the wife see that she respects her husband. That’s what Paul wrote in the second half of Ephesians 5:33. Respect is something that I believe has diminished throughout the years. So many marriages begin well and end poorly because men and women are not properly trained in how to treat one another. God...
A Metaphor As we look around our homes, we can see that most items within it have a specific purpose. The chair is for sitting. The table is for eating. The window is for light to see, as well as fresh air to breathe. Just as it is true that “things” in our homes are...
Are you experiencing a happy marriage? Once again, let me say congratulations, my friend. If any marriage survives 10 years, the couple deserves a big congratulations. Marriage is a mystery. Two strange people coming together to live together for life. Coming from different backgrounds, with different feelings, urbanism, past, experience and yet expected to have...
I think most of these men who complain that women are difficult to deal with are wrong. They have not studied women well enough to know that they are the easiest of creatures created by the Creator. There are codes and philosophies that guide relationship with women. I am sure you know the Monkey Philosophy:...
How to Catch Women Easily part 1 focuses on the market woman as an example. This part two will be on women as wives. And I will use my baby as an example. Often when I am about praying at 10pm, I always have a long list of prayer and verses to support them. Baby,...
I had a friend at a drinking joint I used to sit so many years ago. One day we fell into a talk on family, women, wife, etc. In his contributions, he said “I cannot sit at home with my wife for five minutes, we will fight. We will just pick a quarrel. It’s either...
The rates at which marriages, especially “Christian” marriages are breaking up, crumbling or deteriorating around me is alarming. It appears that one of the common causes for short term marriages, especially within African homes, can be traced back to upbringing. This has made me to reflect on my own personal upbringing, nobody took the time...