Recently, I’ve come under some teachings on relationships and how to service them. Any relationship you do not service is doomed to fail. In all you do, my listeners, don’t think the other person is a fool. They may not talk or complain, but no one is blind in a relationship. This lecture is on...
When we see men like Peter Nwachukwu, Osinachi’s husband, it is not sufficient to condemn them for their acts or send them to prison, if found culpable of any wrongdoing. We need to look beyond their superficials and check the superstructure, how such men are made and how not to, wittingly or unwittingly, push our...
Osinachi Nwachukwu: I am beginning to wonder that with the various revelations or accusations made against the husband of the late gospel singer, especially the media bombardments and trials, is it not right to even hear from the husband? Does it not take two to tango? With all the statements and allegations of wickedness made...
Secret 1 Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse’s weakness you can’t get the best out of his/her strength. Secret 2 Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married, stop...
My researches, encounters, experiences and discoveries in the past years of handling relationship and love matters had opened up a lot of heartbreaks to me. The major reason heartbreaks happen is not far-fetched. They are very close to us and are looking us in the eye without blinking. One with a higher percentage...
Marriage or the choice of a partner is often a black market. A man (or woman) can hide his character for months just to achieve a goal. The heart of man is deep. No one can search it. You often require the power of God to decipher the heart of man. No wonder the Bible...
I had the privilege of speaking at a Christian women’s conference in February 2021. Among other issues, the question on the lips of the majority of the women was, “Why are many Christian women waiting for so long to get a man?’. I tried as much as possible to answer their questions, and here are...
Male singlehood is fast becoming the norm in our society, and since it takes two to tangle, if our young men are increasingly becoming apathetic with marriage—the ladies would become the victims at the end of the day. As a pastor and mentor to a lot of people, my counselling sessions coupled with my years...
Recently, making an unscheduled visit to a friend, I met the couple having a heated argument. I almost turned back to allow them sort themselves out but the heat of their altercation necessitated my intervention. If I had left, there was a great likelihood that it could degenerate to the man hitting his wife. What...
I GOT DIVORCED 14 YEARS AGO BECAUSE MY EX WANTED TO CONVERT ME TO ISLAM, AGAINST OUR EARLIER AGREEMENT THAT I WOULD REMAIN A CHRISTIAN IN THE MARRIAGE. NOW, MY PARENTS AND SIBLINGS WANT ME TO REMARRY, BUT I’M AFRAID AS IF IT WILL CRASH AGAIN. I AM NOW 44 YEARS OLD. CAN I GET...