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ONLY A FOOLISH MAN WON’T PAY SCHOOL FEES – Bola Adewara

Bola Adewara
Last updated: December 10, 2025 8:11 am
Bola Adewara
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feesCome to think of it, some men have abandoned school fees paying responsibilities to their wives or mothers of their children, under the guise of ‘I have no money..” “I am unemployed..” “This woman is useless. I have nothing to do with her and her children again…” “We are separated” “We are divorced”.

If you are separated or divorce nko? No be your prick you take pregnant the woman born for you? No be your name the children dey bear? Nor make me vex o! Foolish man.

There are some responsibilities i think women shouldn’t be bothered with. I am not saying the woman shouldn’t help but a real man must know deep within himself that school fees, feeding and accommodation are his own core responsibilities. If women contribute, it’s by choice.

It is understandable when a man is out of job or justifiably unable and his wife is gladly helping. But what do you say of some men who feel she has money, let her do it? We are separated, we are divorced, I can’t be bothered with the children school fees? Alainitiju gbogbo!

Later in life, these demons will attend graduations, claiming i am the father! So many of them are walking in the streets looking for the next lady to hit. Go and sell whatever you have and pay the fees. If women could sell their jewellery and clothes to pay fees, what stops the man from doing likewise?

If you are an irresponsible father, pick a knife right now, cut your penis and give it to your wife or the mother of your children in a baton exchange! Being a MAN is not a function of penis. You are just a MALE. Being a MAN is a function of responsibilities. Few men are. Listen to me: A woman can be a ‘Man’. Today, so many women are fathers!

I want you to go back to bed now and sleep the seven sleeps a wise man sleeps. Wake up and pick the phone, call the woman that how much is the school fees. I will pay.

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Bola Adewara, editor E-life magazine, hardcopy and online is a widely traveled journalist, author and seminary teacher. You can reach him @ info@bolaadewara.com or 234-8092343464.
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