TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION – Kenny Ajibade

The Men’s Conference 2025 at Grace Family Church, Ikeja, Lagos, was a transformative gathering that inspired and equipped men to fulfil their divine mandates. Pastor Kenny Ajibade, a renowned speaker and minister of the gospel based in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, delivered three powerful sessions centered on personal development, dominion, and the power of relationships. His messages challenged attendees to take responsibility for their lives, exercise spiritual authority, and build meaningful connections that propel them forward.

SESSION 1: THE POWER OF SELF-PROPAGATION AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

In the opening session, titled The First Mandate, Ajibade unveiled the divine principle of self-propagation, emphasizing that every individual reproduces according to their kind. Drawing from Genesis 1:11 and 1:26-28, he explained that just as God expressed Himself through mankind, humans express themselves through their actions, creations, and legacy.

Key Takeaways:

• You Are the MVP of Your Life: Your current reality reflects who you are. To change your life, you must first change yourself (1 Timothy 4:16).
• Why Personal Development Matters: It separates individuals from the crowd, sustains success, and transforms one’s impact on others.
• Actionable Steps:

1. Commit to self-improvement through mental, spiritual, and emotional growth.
2. Invest in learning—read books, attend seminars, and seek mentorship.
3. Take responsibility for personal transformation.
4. Lead by example, as spiritual and personal growth inspire those around you.

Ajibade concluded with a strong call to action: “Your income rarely exceeds your level of personal development” (Jim Rohn). Attendees were urged to identify areas in need of growth and take immediate steps toward self-improvement.

SESSION 2: A MANDATE TO RULE AND DOMINATE

* Pastor Kenny Ajibade

Building on the foundation of personal development, Ajibade delved into the divine commission to exercise dominion. Citing Genesis 1:28, he highlighted how authority was given to humanity, lost through sin, and restored through Christ (Matthew 28:18-19).

Core Lessons:

• Dominion Requires a Domain: Psalms 115:16 affirms that the earth is entrusted to mankind, requiring responsible stewardship.
• Authority is Delegated: To exercise dominion, one must remain under divine authority (Matthew 18:18). True power comes from alignment with God’s will.
• Self-Control is Key to Leadership: A true leader is not enslaved by emotions, cravings, or material desires. Instead, he exercises discipline (1 Corinthians 9:27).
• The Call to Dominate is a Call to Self-Denial: Luke 9:23 and Galatians 5:24 emphasize crucifying the flesh to live a Spirit-led life.

Ajibade urged the congregation to take charge of their lives by embracing spiritual discipline, exercising self-control, and submitting to God’s authority. This, he affirmed, is the path to true dominion and influence in the world.

SESSION 3: THE POWER OF LEVERAGING RELATIONSHIPS

In a world where success is increasingly dependent on strategic relationships, Ajibade explored the importance of building and nurturing meaningful connections. He defined relationship leverage as recognizing the value of people in one’s life and fostering mutually beneficial partnerships.

Biblical and Modern-Day Examples:

• David and Jonathan: Loyalty and advocacy preserved David’s life (1 Samuel 18:1, 20:1-13).
• Paul and Barnabas: Barnabas’ trust in Paul led to his acceptance and ministry breakthrough (Acts 9:26-27).
• Naomi and Ruth: Ruth’s faithfulness positioned her for divine favor (Ruth 2:22-23, 3:1-5).
• Modern Cases: The partnerships of business leaders like Herbert Wigwe and Aigboje Aig-Imoukhuede (Access Bank), Travis Kalanick and Garrett Camp (Uber), and Brian Chesky and Joe Gebbia (Airbnb) demonstrated how relationships drive success.

Principles for Effective Relationship Leverage:

1. Bring Value: Be a contributor, not just a consumer.
2. Be Genuine: Build authentic connections based on trust.
3. Think Scale, Not Ownership: Prioritize impact over control.
4. Stay Connected: Consistently nurture relationships.
5. Collaborate: Seek opportunities for joint success.

Ajibade encouraged attendees to identify key relationships they could nurture and leverage for mutual growth. “Your network is your net worth,” he declared, urging men to invest wisely in relationships that propel them toward their God-given purpose.

CONCLUSION

The Men’s Conference 2025 at Grace Family Church was an eye-opening and empowering event. Ajibade’s teachings provided a blueprint for personal transformation, responsible dominion, and relational leverage. The sessions reinforced that success in life is not accidental but a product of intentional self-growth, spiritual alignment, and meaningful connections.

CALL TO ACTION:

• Take charge of your personal development and become the best version of yourself.
• Exercise dominion by living under divine authority and practicing self-discipline.
• Build and nurture relationships that align with your vision and purpose.

As the conference concluded, attendees left with a renewed sense of purpose, empowered to implement these principles in their daily lives. The question remains: What will you do with what you have heard? The journey to transformation starts now.